@lIlIIllIIIIllllII While I mentioned RetoSwap since I believe it suffers from the same issue, it is a little different from XMRBazaar, as black market currency exchangers are this greedy everywhere around the world, not just Monero. Nonetheless, I wasn't blanket blaming all peers on RetoSwap, but it is a large number on that platform that are doing this. Cash By Mail is its own trouble so it makes sense there. And since you asked me which offer I'd take, I don't have to, I have 2 different methods of acquiring Monero that are completely private and still cheaper than the most 'generous' peer on RetoSwap. My post was for the other newcomers who are interested in Monero for the principles only and not because they want to buy drugs privately to put up with whatever marakups they find.
I admittedly never tried creating my own offer, I never heard anyone share that it actually got them better rates.
@monerica I fundamentally disagree with your initial point. I greatly believe offering a discount would help adoption. My first exposure to Monero in actual commerce was Mullvad's 5% off XMR banner, this planted the first seed, so I totally think it's a necessary component if we're looking to increase usage and not just make big stacks through the Retard Tax off the hardcore ideologues and drug users. Also, when I say discount, I mean just that, 5% or so, nothing crazy. Furthermore, the discount could have 0 to very small effects on the seller, if we factor in all the fiat payment providers and the cut they wouldve taken, it may end up about the same for the seller so there should be no harm there.
Monero does solve privacy, but that's not what all the currency should have to offer, I believe it's sound money in all situations, not when I selectively desire privacy in certain transactions. Sound Money shouldn't come with Retard Tax on top of it, especially when most of the time it's simply exaggerated. Whenever I'll have to sell some XMR for fiat in the future, I know when I post the sell offer on RetoSwap, a "privacy has a price" moron would take my no-retard-tax offer to sell it later for profit. It is what it is though, still better than sending that Monero to CEXs.
Perhaps this whole conversation will change once Monero gets delisted off all CEXs and price discovery comes in. Either it'll be the best thing that happened to Monero or the other way around. Form experience, unrestricted black market currency traders will ruin an entire economy for their own benefit.
Your observations about XMRBazaar business model are interesting. We have a marketplace website here that also charges nothing on listings, but has premium plans for better listing exposure, so not unlike XMRBazaar right now, and this local marketplace website is quite successful, so I'm not sure about this being an unsustainable business model. They should definitely moderate and remove low-quality listings though.