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Monero is an online currency, not an IRL one

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Jun 13, 2026 12:50 PM
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It is always strange to see people talking about using Monero, or any crypto, for in person transactions at businesses. There is really just no way a decentralized payment method can work as fast as a centralized one. A business does not care about whatever ideological or economic theory is behind crypto, they have a line of customers who want to pay and their goal is to collect those payments as fast as possible. If they don't, they will potentially not make sales and collapse as a business.

A blockchain transaction is not deterministic in the way a credit card transaction is, so there is no way to know if it will show up in 1 second or 10 minutes. This is unacceptable for IRL businesses. This excludes confirmation times, which can of course take much longer.

Every time someone brings up a Monero map, or gets frustrated by a gas station or coffee shop not wanting to accept crypto, they seem oblivious to reality. Furthermore, if privacy is the goal, cash is always better for in person transactions. Do you really want to be seen as the crypto guy to some low wage worker? That is a huge security risk.

The use case for Monero is online, it's a settlement layer, not really a transaction layer. Commerce can be done online with more confidence because there aren't chargebacks. The sender can remain anonymous provided metadata isn't provided. But IRL payments? No. That's just not what it's good for. Pretty much everyone who actually uses Monero for IRL payments does so by way of a gift or prepaid card.

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Jun 14, 2026 12:53 PM
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@eravsar If your argument is so compelling, why don't businesses accept it then?

Many people like to talk about the 2-3% credit card fees that can be avoided with Monero but these really don't translate in reality. The market moves that much often in a day. It can even move that much just during 10 confirmations.

Maybe it'd be possible to receive Monero, send to a CEX, exchange on their trading platform and withdrawal to fiat for like 1% in fees but the exact workflow to get the savings isn't clear unless maybe it was directly converted to a stablecoin via some type of pay method?

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Jun 14, 2026 12:58 PM
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@H1XMR If cash is banned, sure. But the reality is that cash will always be more private. Even some people who work on the Monero project, if you watch to see them buy a drink at a conference, they pay in cash despite Monero being accepted. The reality is all digital forms of payment leave a trace, Monero may leave less of a trace but it's still one nonetheless.

Now we can argue that all the security cameras make it harder to say paying with cash is as private as it was, but it's still more private.

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Jun 14, 2026 1:06 PM Edited Jun 14, 2026 1:17 PM
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@xenu It is difficult to explain, imagine someone very old or young working as a cashier needing to be trained on blockchain confirmations across various crypto currencies, it's just not practical.

Long before Monerica, there were efforts to onboard merchants in SF and working with early PoS devices. It just didn't work out. Sure, there were a few coffee shops that had terminals accepting BTC but it was always stressful. This post is not about new territory, it's mostly just to say that the vast majority of people haven't actually tried to do the onboarding IRL businesses to see the pain points first hand.

Moreover, this is to say that there are many use cases for Monero that work today without forcing it into places with high friction. But to this end, every company could accept Monero buy just forcing the customer to buy a gift card for the value ahead of time. Those businesses could keep the XMR or not, but it would reduce the checkout friction.

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Jun 14, 2026 1:10 PM
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@GlitchFrame This isn't about first hand experience running an IRL store. But there is past experience trying to onboard merchants in SF with crypto PoS devices. Very small shops are receptive because any new customers are good but larger merchants are not going to do this because like you say, they need certainty. And this is also talking about the USA, so maybe other countries have different needs or risk tolerance.

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Jun 14, 2026 1:14 PM
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@Nebuchadnezzar_II There may be some situations where IRL could make sense. If you want to sell a car and then say to send to a Kraken address and immediately convert to fiat. Meet a person at a literal bank or police office or something for your own safety.

But these large transactions are also a target for regulators. There is a whole presentation at the last MoneroKon about this topic. You want to sell a helicopter on XmrBazaar or a huge plot of land? It's a huge target for regulators for obvious tax reasons.

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Jun 14, 2026 2:17 PM
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@monerica
That doesn't make sense to me; if a car dealer wanted to convert to fiat immediately, then they would be better off insisting on cash, but if they wanted to avoid the fiat system then they would be better off discounting monero.

I see your point for large transactions; it makes sense for large purchases to be visible targets for law enforcement. I'm sure the same limitation applies to paper cash.

Consider businesses that meet two requirements:

  1. No UX requirements that disqualify xmr.
  2. Has historically preferred cash.

Such businesses, if they want to stay away from the fiat system, might well be better off incentivizing monero use. I certainly think this is true of tradesmen, medium sized purchases (cars, bikes, sofas), (gym) memberships, drugs, tickets (for shows).

Sure there are security risks and its not so adopted yet but I think in future lots of people will avoid the fiat system altogether and such people are likely to find each other more often than not and standard opsec procedures will emerge. For example, I am almost certainly going to train at the gym which happens to accept xmr, even though I chose it for completely unrelated reasons. I'm sure you and everyone else here knows exactly what I mean!

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Jun 14, 2026 7:01 PM
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@Nebuchadnezzar_II The fiat system is not going anywhere. Maybe people will slowly work around it. But to this point, do they use XMR at all in China despite having a CBDC? It doesn't seem like they are using alternatives.

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